For the most part I pretty much agree with what Molly's saying here.
While some advice and tips in regards to parenting can be helpful every now and again, a lot of time is has to do with that weird game of who's a "better" parent. Based on who's kid eats what, who's breast feeding & who's not, who's house is clean, who's routine is sealed, who's allowed too much Tv, who's spanking and who's not. When really, it all comes down to what works in your particular household. The reason why I almost never give new mothers much advice, except to follow their instincts. Because like everything in life, it's usually your best bet. Simple as that.