Saturday, December 9, 2017

What's in a Blog?




When I first started this blog I didn't think too much about "audience" or catering to one anyway, I never imagined a blog could bring me money, or "sponsors," or serve as anything other than a decent place to write about things that interested me, as well as keep a chronological documentation of family photos and experiences as a stay at home mom yearning for some kind of creative outlet. A much needed break from the daily grind of a draining (sometimes isolating) routine I was immersed in at the time when I wasn't really leaving the house much with three kids under 4. What I found in addition to an outlet was new (quality) means of connection. Quite frankly the biggest perk of all. Creating a space that made not only me, but others reading along, feel not so alone.

Since those days, nearly 7 years now, the internet has changed drastically. I think we can all agree. Instagram birthed "influencers" and suddenly photos and brief captioning started to eclipse long winded blog posts altogether. Sponsored content dominated the subjects and everything became very polished and way more "professional." More and more people stopped reading or visiting blogs they had loved for ages altogether because IG was easy, equally inspiring, and just so darn pretty to scroll through all hours of every day. I know I was guilty of the same up until recently when the grand allure of Instagram started to wane and I found myself craving more some kind of depth, in narrative, unfiltered insight, and old school blogging in general. Or whatever existed before these perfectly colored curated boxes appeared and kicked everything else to the sidelines.

In that, my dedication to this site remains unwavering. I may not post as much as I'd like, or invest as much time as it deserves, but I'm here. For better or for worse, I am and hope to always be a blogging die hard. And because I've never asked outright, why you guys read here or what you find appealing, or fun, or irritating, I'm opening up the discussion now. Asking as a favor some feedback from anyone who cares to contribute, readers I adore, who might tell me what it is you like or want or seek out in blogs these days. I'm in the midst of redoing this whole site (to debut after the new year) - as surely some of you must have noticed I'm one of the last on this generic blogspot domain so the switch if long overdo. A site I'm comfortable with but craving change.

This new site that will include much of the same stuff I've always shared but I'm hoping to expand a lot more on lifestyle. Things like vacation guides, movie reviews, thoughts on politics and pop culture that I love so dearly but tend to forsake here because it simply doesn't fit the narrative. What I want to know is your feelings on such things. Any advice, suggestion, examples, critiques - I'm open and grateful for them in helping narrow down or fine tune what exactly I'm wanting to include in constructing this new forum. One I hope will cary the same heart and transparency as always. But spring a little braver, a bit smarter, and a whole lot bolder.


Much love,
J



25 comments:

  1. People are here for you and your genuine gaze. Make the space your own, whatever you like we will enjoy x
    Stick on is my favourite because, things

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    1. oh good. No plans of scratching that one.
      Thank you Luana.
      xxo

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  3. I love “Currently” and “Overheard”, they are my favorites!

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    1. Thanks Trinette! Those are always so fun for me to write / share.

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  4. As a twenty-something without any kiddos (and I say that because I think I may not be your target demographic, but we both have a strong love for Dylan), what I truly love about your internet presence is how real you are. Even with a sponsored ad (no judgement there - we all gotta pay the bills), you are always genuine. I really love your writing and as an artist myself, I find great inspiration from it. I have followed here, on your IG and over on The Ma Books, and they never disappoint. I guess this is more of a general comment, but I just so love your authenticity. Thanks for what you share - it would be a great loss if it was less of the real shit ;)

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    1. Thank you. 🙏🏻 Very kind of you to say and honestly I’m quite flattered 20 somethings find me at all entertaining. That’s a complement in itself.

      And if anything. It’s only getting “realer” from here on out. One of the benefits of blogging all these years is the confidence you gain in self, and I like the “real shit” too.

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    2. Haha yes! Thanks for reading - I'm a weird millennial who finds it hard to process much via Instagram. The blog world is much more interesting :)

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    3. I agree. What a relief to hear you think so too. Happy to have you!

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  5. Having raised a son (now 21!) that always had a buddy or 2 or 3 over, I enjoy reading your blog that covers life knee deep in kids and dogs. It was a lot of fun hearing their laughter over the strangest of things, their ongoing silliness, their antics and whirlwind of activity. Their simplicity. I really miss it all. It's fun to follow your blog and live a little of our old household days vicariously through yours. I love the unpolished beauty of your life. That's what most appeals to me. 🐍🐌🐕

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  6. Hi! I am a long time reader, I love your blog, it's one of the only ones I read on a regular basis. Some of my favorites are "Overheard" and "Currently", but honestly I like your blog overall.

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  7. I have a hand full of blogs that have stayed with me for years even as others have fallen off my radar. Yours being one of them. Because I love to watch/see your little family and both your adventures/vacations and your day to day. Because I love the things your boys say and do and their different personalities. Because I love your style as a family. Your videos always make my heart happy. I can't really pinpoint any one thing I love, but maybe it's just the fact that your personal style shines through everything you do and I feel connected here. <3

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  8. HI Jessica, I found you a couple years ago when i didn't have any children but i loved how honest and raw you were about life in general. You have inspired me through those years to be honest and free. Today I have a 22 months baby boy old and just move from New york to Texas were i wish i could find a friend as cool as you are. Love your writing, humor and your taste for fashion and home decor, also looove the overheard.
    Thank for never loosing the reality of life and always being so honest and transparent with everything your share with us.

    love your blog.

    jessi.

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  9. Most of my Instagram 'favorites' are those whose blog I followed first. I found your blog some years ago...not sure how or where. The more I read, the more I felt connected to your story...and the times when motherhood felt overwhelming or lonely, I knew I could come here (and Ma Books) to tend to that inner fire. Honestly, instagram feels a bit flat for me these days and I hear that sentiment a lot from other friends, but blogs still have heart. Although I've never met you (and it may be odd to say...I'm approaching 40, so friends-through-the-internet is still weird to me) but in reading your blog I've always felt like I'd want to be your friend...your words have made me laugh and cry. They've left me feeling inspired and a sense of communal motherhood/womanly comradery, and I've nodded my head in agreement more times than I can count. You're a brilliant story teller and your voice is truly authentic. I'm really glad to know you won't be leaving this platform behind because you really shine. Thank you for sharing your story with us. xx

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  10. Don't really remember how I found your blog, but I do still love reading here. I appreciate your authenticity and honesty. Of course your views on raising boys and appreciate that you're real with what you share. It's fun to see how other moms in a similar life-path deal with the everyday and how they choose to pass their time. I like Instagram, but I'm usually looking for something a little closer to home as far as what I can see myself doing, affording, learning...Also, I really appreciate that you don't take yourself too seriously or baulk away from fun or frivolous posts without compromising a smart and witty presentation.

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  11. i keep coming back because your writing makes me feel so connected to you and your family. i'm so inspired by your aesthetic, i think you used the word "dusty," but i think that's just right and what's so beautiful about each of your personal and design choices - reflective, quiet, present. most of the time my house/life is like a garbage bin (i'm sure we all have those moments), but your little snippets and thoughts help me center and readjust (really, truly!). i love to come here and get lost in your thoughts for just a little part of the day. and, i'm always excited to see you've posted recently with photos of your adventures - a little window into your life. thank you so much for sharing so many personal things here - i think this was what blogging was meant to be! and thank you for sharing your family! they are amazing and real.

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  12. I will have to say, I work in environment that has me on the computer for x amount of hours, and this started around when blogs started becoming more prominent...even before Instagram, that's how long I have been perusing the internet reading blogs. I have read yours, and a few others for lets say close to 5 years or so....The biggest thing I have noticed with the other blogs I occasionally check in with is authenticity. Many MANY bloggers have lost this with receiving sponsors (not that I have any grip with that, more power to you) or have let their online presence go to their head, where they think being an online presence gives them course to recommend a $560 dollar blanket that they received for free. Your blog has been unwavering, you are thoughtful, insightful, honest, well spoken and true. This is what has been bringing me back time and time again. I'm also 30 with zero kids, so again probably not your target audience, but the things I have admired in you and your family is your honesty and your aesthetic, your friendships that are just important to you as being a mom and a wife (How I found Jessica and Denise's instas and love just as much) and your talent to be able to grow with this blog and stay true to it at the same time. I just started following the Ma Books on Insta, which I occasionally check in online (not sure how much will apply to me, but hey I love the content here so why not) and I'm excited for you and your families new adventure with this new house. I'm excited for the change because I know you will be able to move forward with this blog but remain true to your readers! Congrats Jess, I know I will be here reading the blog as long as you enjoy writing in this space!

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  13. There's not many blogs I find myself revisiting time and time again. Yours is a tried and true favorite that I check regularly and feel inspired every time I visit. You've remained true to yourself and your vision and have been able to create such an authentic, down-to-earth, inspiring (the list goes on and on) space, while so many others have lost themselves in this internet pressure. I don't know how you manage to do it, but you have so humbly been able to remain as real as they come while also using this as as a space to inspire others and hopefully benefit your family as well. So grateful you're still here providing that space I so desperately need. Keep on keeping on. You're killing it.

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  14. I really love your blog and have been following years. I find your blog very refreshing and authentic. I love your approach to family, life, design and friendship. Excited to see what is to come here!

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  15. I am here for what you have been serving. you are one of the few blogs that I still have bookmarked.

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  16. Your blog and voice on social media is refreshing and strong. It feels real/connected/genuine against the backdrop of everything else going on on both social media and online. I'm consistently inspired by your eye for photography/videography, home, writing and sense of style. Can't wait to see your new site + continue to watch your home reno! Xx

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  17. I don't know how I found you, but I've been following you on Instagram since my first child was a baby. He's named Leon, too! Now that I have two boys, your posts keep on giving me a "If she can do it, I can too!" burst of confidence. I like that you post about the now-so-perfect stuff, too. Being a mother is so hard! And real life sucks sometimes, and it's alright to read about it. I love your photos and how you write. And your cars. And house. And stuff. And California. All the random things. So inspiring to read from my third-world part of the globe LOL

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  18. I’m a 23 year old with no kids or husband and I’ve been following since Rex was about two (and he would cry because he wasn’t going to school like his brothers were. Lol) I love following you because I simply love your writing. Also, I love your views ( and the way you express them ever so unapologeticly even when they seem controversial), your taste, and the realistic glimpse you offer into motherhood. Also your kids are rad - each in their own weird unique beautiful way. (Your “overheard” series are the best. Don’t stop.)

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  19. I started reading blogs roughly 10 years ago when I was wedding planning and there was no Pinterest and no Instagram. While looking for wedding ideas what I found was a community of women that I looked up to and who provided an outlet and showed me there was more to life than just getting by or surviving life. The blogging women I found showed me you could thrive! Your blog, Simple Lovely and Lovely Morning were just a few of my favorites. I miss reading the others daily! So glad you are going to continue! Now that I am a mother I look to spaces like yours to show me that while things are never perfect, they are always worth the time and energy you put into them. Can't wait to see what comes next for you and your family.

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